a happy bride and groom in The Secret Tower Newcastle on their wedding day

How to Choose a Wedding Photographer

How to Choose a Wedding Photographer

HELPFUL PLANNING

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…and why I might just be the one you’re looking for

When you’re choosing a wedding photographer, it’s not just about pretty pictures — it’s about how those photos feel.

1. Start with Style and Connection

If you’re drawn to images that are full of laughter, emotion, and the tiny in-between moments — the kind that feel real rather than posed — then we’re probably on the same page. My style is relaxed and documentary-led, with just the right amount of subtle direction when it’s needed.

I’ll never ask you to do anything that feels forced or cheesy. My aim is to create space for you to just be you — natural, comfortable, and completely caught up in the joy of it all. The best photographs always come when you forget I’m even there.

a bride and groom at the secret tower Newcastle
Bride and Groom cuddling together on their wedding day at The Biscuit Factory Newcastle upon Tyne
a bride and groom walking in the gardens at St Chads College Durham

2. Understand the Photographer’s Approach

bride with her veil blowing over her face and groom standing in the gardens at Runa Farm on a windy day

modern, candid documentary style wedding photos

Every photographer has their own way of working. Mine is simple: I blend in, quietly documenting your day as it unfolds, stepping in only when you need a little guidance — like during portraits or family group shots.
Think of it as 90% documentary, 10% gentle direction. I’ll make sure you look amazing in your photos, but never at the expense of the fun or flow of the day. I’m there to tell the story as it happens — the laughter, the chaos, the emotion — not to stage it.
If you want your photos to feel natural and effortlessly beautiful, rather than stiff or overly styled, that’s exactly what I do best.

a silhouette of a bride and groom kissing in the stairwell of The BALTIC GATESHEAD on their wedding day
bridesmaids dancing at a wedding at The Secret Tower Newcastle

3. Look for Experience and Calm Confidence

Weddings move fast, and the light, weather and timings don’t always play along. That’s where experience really matters.
With years behind the camera — including a background in press photography — I’m completely at ease working under pressure and in any lighting situation. Whether it’s a candlelit ceremony, a windswept confetti toss, or a packed dance floor, I’ll make it look incredible.
My calm, organised approach means you can just relax and enjoy the day knowing I’ve got it all under control (and that nothing fazes me).

a father hugs his daughter on her wedding day at White Syke Fields near York

4. Communication Is Everything

The best photography experience comes from trust and good communication. From the moment you get in touch, I’m here to make things easy — from timelines and planning advice, to helping you feel comfortable in front of the camera.


I only take on a limited number of weddings each year, so I can give every couple my full attention. I want to get to know you properly, understand what matters most to you, and make sure the experience feels personal and stress-free from start to finish.


On the day, I’ll be calm and unobtrusive, but also friendly and approachable — the kind of person your guests will happily chat to and then later say, “We barely noticed her, but she got everything!”

a bride with long red hair blowing in the wind at The Chilli Barn Otley
a bride and groom under confetti at The Croft Hotel
an alternative bride and groom at their wedding at St Chad's College Durham
a modern fun bride and groom walking infant of a graffiti wall in Hoults Yard Newcastle on their wedding day

5. The Practical Stuff (That Makes All the Difference)

When you’re comparing photographers, you’ll notice a lot of talk about coverage hours, packages and extras — and that’s all important. But what really matters is how it feels to work with them.


I keep things straightforward and transparent. You’ll get full-day coverage (no rushing off early), all the best images carefully edited, and a beautiful online gallery to relive the day. I’m fully insured, always bring backup gear, and have backup plans for my backup plans — because peace of mind is priceless.

KIND WORDS

“Emily is worth every penny!”

6. Trust Your Gut

If you’ve looked through my work and thought, “This feels like us,” that’s your sign. Choosing a photographer should feel easy — like you’ve found someone who gets your vibe and knows exactly how to tell your story.


If you’re dreaming of modern, creative, relaxed photography with a documentary feel and zero awkward posing — and you want someone experienced, friendly, and calm in the chaos — then I might just be the right fit for you.

So, trust your gut. Get in touch, and let’s capture your day exactly as it happens — full of life, laughter, and all the moments that make it yours.

7. budget &

Value

Photography is one of the few parts of your wedding that genuinely lasts forever. You’ll look back on these photos for years to come — so they should make you feel something every single time.
I believe in offering real value — not just in the quality of images you get, but in the care, experience, and heart that goes into creating them. You’re investing in how your memories will look and feel for the rest of your life, and that’s something I take seriously (without taking myself too seriously).

MORE HELPFUL

PLANNING TIPS

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READY TO

CONNECT?

When you’re looking for your perfect wedding photographer, choose someone who:


Feels like a friend, not a stranger with a camera
Captures genuine moments, not forced ones.


Has the experience to handle anything
Makes you feel calm, comfortable and seen.


Understands your story — and tells it beautifully.

If that sounds like what you’re after, I’d love to hear from you.

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